When I was growing up, obedience equalled safety. And for the most part, that's smart: don't touch the fire you'll burn your hand, take a coat, otherwise you'll be cold.
At some point though you have to reaffirm your sense of self - so you have to decide for yourself what is dangerous or not.
Except if you're in a belief system that says it's not safe to:
- express yourself how you want to
- connect with who it feels good to connect to
- listen to your intuition
- listen to your body wisdom
and anything else that the patriarchy tries to control...
you have to get disobedient.Read More