You allow me personality quirks and room for creativity.
You ban the words 'fail' and 'stupid'.
You let ME make the decision when my body/brain/group contribution is exhausted.
You praise people for resting.
You arrange things seasonally.
You explain how you come to your good conclusions; how you practice good judgement.
You don't mind going back over things again and again, and bring to mind those incidents when you took 5 times to 'get' something.
You smile at me.
I am content, encouraged and moving forward. My work is play. I am at my most free.