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Why do you not have the life that you want?
Do you know?
I know that ANYONE can create the freedom-centred, joyful, fun-filled and adventurous life that they choose.
See, I've been through all the excuses myself - I don't have enough money, time, motivation, knowledge - whatever to get 'THERE'.
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Tears pricked my eyes as I climbed the hill.
At nothing in particular and at everything in that moment.
It was my early morning walk and I was reflecting on the events of the preceding days. What one of my clients was facing. Using my intuition. How I was communicating. Being a coach means that when something comes up in your client’s life, you know damn well there is something in there for you as well.
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Everything is against me, I thought.
My colleagues seem to be deliberately unhelpful. I’ve got SO much work. And I DON’T want to BE HERE.
I was miserable. I dreamed of working for myself, having my own clients. I longed for the sunshine, peace, space and time to myself
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You say things like 'I'm just going to...' and 'One last thing...' or 'Don't worry, I'll power through it'
And when you're always pushing yourself and running at 110% ALL THE TIME, you KNOW it doesn't work.
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Most people don't know what they want.
We have been told that 'I want, never gets' and we put away our dreams in the wardrobe in the attic.
And it can be challenging to encourage that dreamer within you to come out ,so you can get clear on that bold, exciting, adventurous life that you'd love to lead.
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If you’ve been feeling as though your dream is so far away and you wish you could just ‘be there’ and start ‘living the dream', take heart.
You CAN start living it: right now.
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In every moment, you have a choice.
When I first read that, I felt so much pressure.
In every moment, I had a choice?
I felt that I would more often than not choose the wrong thing.
Clothes, food, jobs, men.
I was notching up errors.
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There is a horrible, inevitable ‘feeling’ you have when you keep grinding away at a job that you hate.
A ‘Will I ever get out of this?’ feeling. Of course, there is a possibility of redundancy. But if we ‘wait’ for something to change, we then realise…it’s only ourselves that is stopping us from moving forward.
Read MoreI remember being hit by a mixture of relief and pain when I realised that I alone am responsible for my attitude to life, what I do and who I am.
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